Be Philosophical, by Dave Barrows 

I have heard this phrase repeated many times: “Be Philosophical”. In fact, I have used the term whilst having an unpleasant conversation. It is one of those phrases that says everything and means nothing or says nothing and means everything. 

But what does it actually mean? Let's ask our new friend “Chat”: 

“What does it mean when you tell someone to be philosophical after they tell you that they have cancer 

ChatGPT 

When you tell someone to be philosophical after they inform you about their cancer diagnosis, it means that you are encouraging them to approach the situation with a philosophical mindset or perspective. Being philosophical in this context involves reflecting on the broader questions and aspects of life, seeking deeper understanding, and contemplating the nature of existence and human experiences. 

By suggesting a philosophical approach, you are encouraging the person to explore the meaning and purpose of their life, the nature of suffering and mortality, and how they might find solace or wisdom amidst their difficult circumstances. It is a way of inviting them to consider philosophical concepts such as acceptance, resilience, gratitude, and the pursuit of personal growth and meaning in the face of adversity. 

It is important to note that suggesting a philosophical approach does not dismiss or trivialize the emotional and physical challenges that come with a cancer diagnosis. Instead, it offers an alternative perspective and coping mechanism that some individuals may find helpful in navigating their experience and finding a sense of peace or understanding. However, everyone responds differently to such suggestions, so it's essential to be respectful and understanding of the person's unique needs and emotions.” 

I find this response very interesting. Whenever I have heard the term used, or in fact, used it myself it was always in the context of “be stoic”. 

Interesting, who knew?